Are You an Emotional Eater? | By Olesya Novik
Over my many years of being in the fitness industry and working with individuals from all walks of life, I’ve seen women struggle with quite a variety of eating disorders. The truth is that the majority of women do, at one point or another, battle at least one of many abnormal eating patterns. Some of them recover quickly, and others, sadly, never do.
Since I’m well aware of the effects of these disorders on the women who have them, along with the embarrassment and misinformation that often comes with the territory, I’ve decided to write a series of articles addressing the different disorders, their symptoms, and possible treatments.
This article will address emotional eating. The reason I’ve decided to go with this particular disorder first, is because it just happens to be the most common among my female clientele. The majority of the women with whom I’ve worked have, at one point or another, dealt with emotional relationships with food and would consider themselves to be compulsive overeaters.
Because there’s a lot to be said about this particular problem, the emotional eating disorder will be discussed over a series of articles. In this one, we’ll cover the definition of the term, determine your personal tendencies to be one of the millions of emotional overeaters, and take a look at a few steps you can take today to start healing.
Emotional Eating: The Definition
Your primary reason for consuming food should be to provide it with fuel. If you’re eating for reasons other than that, you’re most likely eating for emotional reasons. Every time you’re “craving” chocolate, chances are, you’re craving the comfort that comes along with eating it. That’s an emotion.
If you find yourself mindlessly devouring portion after portion of even healthy foods, chances are good that this is your body’s response to an emotion. Whether stress, loneliness, happiness, sadness, anxiety, or even boredom, many people get into the habit of eating as a response to various feelings, in hopes of numbing them.
Notice the word “habit.” Habits are hard to break. This isn’t something anyone decides to do mindfully. Compulsive overeating can be a vicious cycle.
But there is hope! If you can learn to alter your response to various feelings, you can break the cycle. Is it easy? NO. But nothing worthwhile ever is.
Are You an Emotional Eater?
If you aren’t sure whether what I’m talking about here applies to you or not, consider the following questions:
- Do you tend to randomly open the fridge and start “picking” at foods when you *just* ate and are in no way hungry?
- Do you reach for food when you’re bored, feeling stressed, irritated, angry, or sad?
- Do you have a hard time stopping yourself from finishing the food that’s in front of you, even when you’re stuffed?
- Do you feel guilty and regretful after consuming your unplanned meal?
Can you identify with any of the above? If you can, then you’re not alone – you’re one of the many emotional overeaters who consume food to satisfy feelings rather than hunger pangs or the body’s energy requirements.
Breaking the Cycle
We all go through various stressors, that’s part of being alive. We, as women, are especially prone to undergoing an emotional roller-coaster as we run around taking care of everyone’s needs, doing a million unrelated tasks… and then, there are the natural, hormonal changes we all undergo each month that add fuel to the fire.
It’s hard to overcome bad emotional habits when there are so many emotions with which to deal. But you see, this is precisely the first step to overcoming your habit – dealing with your emotions!
You’re so busy taking care of everyone else, that all you have the time to do for yourself, is stuff your face with food that you know you shouldn’t be eating as you keep running around like a chicken without a head!
We’ll talk in depth about dealing with this eating disorder in upcoming articles, but for now, try asking yourself whether you really need the food you’re about to eat when you’re standing there and staring at the fridge.
When you’ve decided that breaking your diet for those cookies is worth it, give yourself ten minutes to calm down and reassess the situation. If you still think it’s a smart decision, go ahead and have a cookie.
Those treats won’t disappear if you just wait and let your emotions calm down a bit. If you find that you’re bored, get busy doing some other pleasurable, enjoyable activity – paint your nails, call a friend, go for a walk (or a drive) – and when you get back, those cookies will still be there! Your mind is telling you that you need to occupy it – if it wanted you to eat, you’d be feeling hungry!
Your body is craving attention from you, not from the food you’re consuming. The minute you learn to refocus, to be patient with yourself, to stop treating yourself with mindless, thoughtless actions, you’ll notice your habits start to slowly shift and the vicious cycle will begin to break.
Get to know yourself. Be patient. You deserve it.
I Eat Because I Like to Eat!
Oftentimes, when asked whether she overeats due to being an emotional eater, a client will respond by saying that she overeats because she loves food, but that it has nothing to do with emotions. “I love food, so it’s hard for me to stop,” she’ll say. “I enjoy eating tasty stuff, and get carried away – that’s how my whole family are overeaters,” is another variation.
Believe it or not, statements like these are another sure-fire way to tell whether food consumption stems from an emotional place. Sure, we all love certain foods, and there is nothing wrong with enjoying treats that taste good to us, but when you’re eating past the point of fullness, as if you’ll never see that food again, you know there’s a problem.
It’s never as simple as “I eat because I like to eat,” and admitting that to yourself is the first step to stopping this defeating behavior. Sit down with yourself, and really listen to what your mind is telling you. If you’re overeating – whether it’s chocolate, cookies, cake, chicken, or even broccoli – there’s something there to be dealt with.
Begin being mindful with yourself, starting today. Take the first step toward a healthy relationship with food, a healthy mind, and a healthy body.
In the next article, we’ll go over possible trigger situations and cues that may prompt emotional eating, along with more ways to break the cycle.
Olesya Novik, President and CEO of Olicious Life LLC
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